How should parents deal with injuries to their children?

Children are bound to bump into each other in kindergarten, and sometimes quarrels are inevitable. Parents must handle it calmly. So how should parents deal with it when their children are beaten? Why do some children like to hit others? The following editor will give you a detailed introduction.

How to deal with a child who has been beaten

When a child is beaten by his peers or drags his injured body home to complain, as a parent, you must remain calm, calm, and calm again. Try to eliminate the interference of negative emotions and use reason to control the development of the situation.

When faced with a child's bloody mess, stay calm and send the injured child to the hospital emergency room immediately to find out the injury and receive treatment. If you panic, you will lose your composure and it will also increase the child's fear.

Understand what happened, make an objective judgment, keep a forward-looking attitude, and resolve the incident in a realistic manner. If the other party hurt your child unintentionally, there is no reason to blame the other party; if the other party hurt your child intentionally, contact the other party's parents, distinguish right from wrong and responsibility, and resolve the conflict calmly.

Don't let your emotions get in the way, don't just blame your children, and don't just curse each other. The spirit of parents who stick to principles and deal with conflicts with generosity will inevitably penetrate into their children's hearts. This will undoubtedly be an inexhaustible spiritual wealth for children to face life and explore the future when they grow up, and it will become the key for children to unlock frustration and grievances.

Why do some children like to hit others?

From the environment

Babies have a natural tendency to imitate. Whatever environment their parents provide them, they will absorb everything that the surrounding environment gives them without selection. The objects of imitation for babies come from their friends, TV, movies and other media, as well as from the adults around them. Babies not only imitate various aggressive behaviors they see on TV programs or in their daily environment, but also imitate those "aggressive behaviors" between adults that are joking in nature without selection because they cannot distinguish them. For example, in order to make the baby happy, some parents may pretend to hit the baby, bite the baby, or use other aggressive behaviors to tease the baby, etc. This will invisibly give the baby the impression that hitting and biting people is a very fun thing, or a way to express affection.

Inappropriate attitude from parents

When parents first discover their baby's aggressive behavior, if they do not handle it properly, it may reinforce the baby's behavior. For example, when a baby hits or bites someone for the first time, because the baby is young, adults often find it very interesting and discuss with family members in surprise, "Oh, the baby hits people!" Or they may face the baby with other appreciative attitudes, for example, the father may say to the baby with appreciation, "Okay, do it again!" This kind of reaction of parents will mislead the baby and invisibly reinforce the baby's aggressive behavior.

To relieve stress

For younger babies, due to their limited language expression ability, they are often unable to express their needs effectively, and therefore cannot release the pressure caused by not being able to communicate effectively with others. Therefore, they can only release the pressure from their hearts by biting, hitting, etc. to irritate or bully their playmates.