What should I do if my child is beaten by a teacher in kindergarten?

What should you do if your child is beaten by a teacher in kindergarten? The stage of children in kindergarten is a stage for them to learn to get along with others. Today, I will give you a detailed introduction on how to deal with children being beaten in kindergarten. If your child is beaten by a teacher in kindergarten, how should parents deal with this problem? Please see the detailed introduction below.

What should I do if my child is beaten by a teacher in kindergarten?

First, comfort the child and help her calm down: hug her, kiss her, and tell her that you are by her side no matter what;

Second, check the injury to see if there is any external injury or make further internal injury check according to the child's performance (normal teachers will not be so cruel as to cause internal injury to children!)

Third, guide the child step by step so that he or she can restore the truth as much as possible. If the child is still young, parents should calmly understand the situation from the child's words and not jump to conclusions.

Fourth, find other classmates who are close to your child and ask them what happened. This will help you make a comprehensive judgment.

Fifth, send a message to the teacher, truthfully report the child's situation at home, and make an appointment with the teacher for a face-to-face meeting. This is a buffer, which not only reminds the teacher but also gives the teacher enough face, and you don't have to worry about other consequences caused by your anxious words and colliding with the teacher when you meet.

Sixth, face-to-face interview. During the interview, parents should be present as much as possible to show how much they value the matter, but the child should not be present. During the conversation, parents should be neither humble nor overbearing, and have in-depth communication with the teacher based on the work they have done in the early stage. They should both affirm the teacher's work and understand the teacher's work, and then mention the main purpose of the interview as calmly as possible, and finally put forward their hopes for the child's future.

What should parents do if their children are beaten by teachers?

Why did the teacher hit the child? First of all, you need to help the child sort out his thoughts and think from the teacher's perspective, what is wrong with the child, and then help the child analyze, if you do this, is it better? In addition, verify the authenticity of what the child said with the teacher. You can talk to the teacher in a chat way and ask what happened. And tell the teacher that you have explained the reason to the child at home, and I am really sorry to cause trouble to the teacher. Please take care of the teacher in the future, and communicate in time if there is any situation. Of course, you must be sure where the teacher hit, whether it was really hit, and why. If you are not very sure, it may be wronged. It is not good. So we should take a step back and let the sky be broad, and talk about it in combination with future developments.

How should parents educate their children if they are beaten in kindergarten?

1. Being able to think of ways to avoid or seek help does not always mean cowardice. Sometimes it is a sign of smartness and can protect yourself from harm.

2. Teach your children to compare the fighting power of both sides and the teacher’s attitude based on the current situation, and decide whether to fight back, dodge, turn enemy into friend, or ask adults for help.

3. If the situation dictates that you must fight back, be sure to be careful not to hurt others’ vital points.

4. Do not attack or hurt other children. Be tolerant when interacting with other children.

"Fighting may seem like a small problem, but it affects the development of children's character. Parents don't want their children to be 'wolves', nor do they want their children to be 'sheep' and lose their ability to protect themselves." Professor Feng Dequan, a child education expert, believes that this issue cannot be simply viewed as "fight back or not". The key is to establish children's awareness of self-protection and guide them to find solutions themselves. We need to let children learn to grow up on their own, and parents can just play a positive guiding role.