How to discipline children during their rebellious period? At what age do children reach the rebellious stage?

Many parents know that educating children requires certain skills, because every child will have rebellious thoughts when they reach a certain age, and parents usually need to guide them in the right way. So how to discipline children during their rebellious period? At what age do children enter their rebellious period?

Character guidance: Children begin to awaken their self-awareness at around two years old, and have a sense of "I". If they are suppressed or misguided by adults, it will affect their physical and mental development. At this stage, they are no longer willing to obey their parents in everything, and begin to like to say "I don't". Parents can replace "no" by giving their children choices. This method is convenient for parents to conduct positive guidance and will not give children a sense of control. Parents should ensure the safety of their children, respect their children's personality, avoid blaming their children for "disobedience" frequently, and encourage them to study and explore. Children of this age often love to imitate adults, but babies have limited abilities and cannot complete adult tasks. At this time, parents can arrange some things within their ability for their children, and give them encouragement when they finish. When babies pester their parents and make trouble, parents should learn to make rules, learn to say "no", and develop good habits for their babies.

Children will have several rebellious periods in the process of growing up. The initial rebellious period is in the early childhood stage. The child's consciousness is not completely independent, but there is still a certain rejection of the parents' ideas. Therefore, during this period, the child should establish a correct attitude towards life. The second stage is usually when the child is 7 to 8 years old after going to school. During this period, the child is more likely to rebel. The third stage is when the child is 13 to 18 years old, and will go through a puberty process. In different rebellious stages, parents should give positive guidance, not a comprehensive blow, and constantly communicate with the child to guide the child's healthy growth. There are certain differences in the rebellious period of children. Children will have tempers, dislike going to school, abnormal behavior, etc. during the rebellious period. This is a normal physiological manifestation. During the rebellious period of children, you must not scold the child. You can communicate with the child more, which can effectively prevent the child from doing wrong things during the rebellious period. Don't put too much pressure on your child at ordinary times, and keep your mood comfortable.

As children grow older, their body and mind undergo tremendous changes. Rebellion is like a seed waiting to sprout, stirring deep inside the child's body. Children are eager to be recognized by the adult world, and they are eager to use rebellious behavior to show the world that they have grown up, and are no longer children in the eyes of their parents, and are no longer "chess pieces" that can be manipulated at will. At this time, parents must combine their own growth experience to support, affirm, and believe in their children, and face their children with the attitude of "human nature is good." In fact, all rebellion comes from resistance to constraints and restrictions. In addition to the physical and psychological constraints that children face, there are also various restrictions deliberately constructed by the adults around them. When we accuse children of rebellion, we also expose the root cause of rebellion: control and suppression evolved from over-care. It is this seemingly kind and gentle constraint that makes growing children at a loss.

The rebellious period of children is divided into three stages. The first stage is the baby rebellious period. The second stage is the child rebellious period. The third stage is the adolescent rebellious period. The baby rebellious period is when rebellious behavior appears at the age of 2-3, which is the first rebellious period in life. The child rebellious period is around 7-9 years old, which is the second rebellious period in life. The adolescent rebellious period is 12-18 years old, which is the third rebellious period in life. Different rebellious periods have different personality development, as well as psychological and physiological development characteristics, and the way parents deal with them is also different. During the child's rebellious period, it is recommended that parents carry out correct education and guidance work to truly understand the child's true thoughts, and do not immediately blame the child when he does something wrong.