What embarrassing things will happen when having a child? Will having a child make you older?

Giving birth is the most painful and embarrassing time in a woman's life. When you are in excruciating pain, you can't care about anything else. So, what kind of embarrassing things will you encounter when giving birth? Let's take a look~

What are the embarrassing things that may happen when giving birth?

1. Internal and anal examination

Internal and anal examination: The doctor uses his fingers to check the vagina and anus of the mother to understand the exposure of the fetus, the condition of the cervix and the pelvis. Unless you have decided in advance to have a caesarean section, all mothers will definitely be examined by the doctor or nurse for anal or internal examinations, and the number of times is quite a lot. Embarrassing things for expectant mothers: @Yong Mommy: I believe that mothers who have had the experience of giving birth are not unfamiliar with the internal examination during the labor pain period. The doctor puts his fingers into the vagina while wearing sterile gloves, puts his fingers on the cervix, and uses his fingers to measure the opening of the cervix. I really didn't like this examination at the time. Although the doctor was very considerate of my feelings throughout the whole process and his movements were very gentle, I still rejected it every time I checked it. The main reason was that I felt that I had to expose my private parts, which was unacceptable and embarrassing.

2. Meet a male doctor

Of course, it is very embarrassing. The private parts of a child are completely exposed and being watched by a grown man. It is so embarrassing to think about it. Although I know that he is just a doctor and you are just a sample in his eyes. For professional doctors, what is lying on the bed is just a pile of organs, just like a pile of pork you see in the vegetable market. In fact, male doctors also have advantages in delivering babies. Male doctors are quick-witted, have good physical strength, and are brave. In an emergency, they can analyze more calmly and rationally and make decisions quickly. However, although many mothers find it difficult to accept psychologically, in fact, when the time comes, they will be in so much pain and anxious to give birth that they can't care so much. Embarrassing things for expectant mothers: @安安孕妈: Most male doctors are good at medicine, words, deeds, and actions. I have seen the thoughtfulness and care of male obstetricians for parturients. This behavior is the most touching for the parturients in our ward. We are all adults, there is no need to be embarrassed. Embarrassment only affects us women's hearts.

3. Yelling and shouting, no image

During childbirth, the pain will make you scream, cry, or curse your husband or doctor, or even do something more extreme. You may seem like a madman, but don't blame yourself. This is just the most direct manifestation of pain and exhaustion. Embarrassing things about expectant mothers: @小皮妈妈: When I gave birth, I screamed and yelled in the hospital for a day and a half. The whole hospital knew me... @贝儿: Giving birth was probably the craziest time of my life. I screamed the most, spoke the most harshly, and blurted out any swear words. After waking up, I just wanted to flush this memory into the toilet...

4. Incontinence

In the delivery bed, the pain forces you to push harder and harder. To be honest, you can't tell whether you are giving birth or pooping. Generally, before delivery, the doctor will use a suppository to help the mother to empty the stool. Even if you poop on the delivery bed, there is no need to worry too much, let alone be embarrassed. The doctor is already used to it. They will quickly clean it up and help you disinfect it. For the mother, just concentrate on giving birth. Embarrassing things for expectant mothers: @宝贝妈妈爱你的经历: When I gave birth to my first baby, my amniotic fluid suddenly broke in the delivery room. The doctor took a test strip to test it. As a result, I instantly had urinary incontinence, which made the nurse's hand dirty. I was shaking all over, like a Parkinson's patient. I never thought that I would have such an embarrassing time. @一尼尼尼: My friend had fecal incontinence when giving birth, and then the baby came out and pooped again. The doctor was sprayed twice, and it was still watery. When he pushed it out, the doctor said seriously, you and your mother can really poop.

5. The hair below is shaved

The hair below is easy to breed bacteria, which is not conducive to the recovery of the wound. Therefore, before giving birth, the young nurses will shave the hair for young mothers. It's embarrassing to think about it. Embarrassing things for expectant mothers: @尧尧: Before giving birth, the nurse wanted to help me shave my pubic hair. Although we are all women, I still feel it's so unnatural. Such a private thing, it always feels weird to be done by a stranger. @豆豆妈: The procedure of shaving pubic hair during delivery is called perineal skin preparation. After removing the pubic hair, it is convenient for the doctor to disinfect and suture the perineal wound of the expectant mother who gave birth naturally. Moreover, bacteria are easy to breed in pubic hair, and the fetus may be infected when passing through the perineum, causing disease. Therefore, skin preparation is beneficial for both expectant mothers and fetuses. In addition, removing pubic hair is conducive to cleaning the perineum and is a good hygiene habit.

Does having children accelerate the aging of women?

Women are different from men. Women have more estrogen in their bodies, which can promote water and sodium retention, making women's skin full of moisture and elastic, and looking more "watery".

The ovaries play a vital role in maintaining a woman's youth and beauty.

The ovaries contain a fixed number of eggs, which are released on time every month. When the follicles in the ovaries are exhausted and the ovarian function gradually fails, women begin to age slowly. When the ovaries lose the ability to secrete estrogen, women will age quickly.

The ovaries have a great influence on women. So, what effect does having a child have on the ovaries?

First of all, during pregnancy, the levels of estrogen and progesterone in a woman's body will increase a lot compared to before pregnancy. After a woman gives birth, the estrogen level will decrease, but this decrease will not cause a big change in a woman's appearance.

Secondly, during pregnancy and lactation, the action of hormones in the body will temporarily stop the normal ovulation of the ovaries.

Since birth, the number of follicles in a woman's body is constant, which means that if the follicles are released early, the ovaries will fail early. The temporary cessation of ovulation will delay the onset of menopause to a certain extent.

From this perspective, having children will not only not make women older, but will also delay women entering menopause and make them younger.

When giving birth, no matter how hard or tired a woman is, she feels it is insignificant.

Li Xiaolu

Li Xiaolu once suffered from severe bleeding after a caesarean section. She needed to be inserted with a needle and bandaged. She couldn't speak or eat. Jia Nailiang, who accompanied her throughout the whole process, still has lingering fears when he recalls it: "She was already speaking incoherently, she was shaking all the time, and her face was pale."

Vivian Hsu

Vivian Hsu, an elderly pregnant woman, had a cervical cerclage to prevent premature birth because the fetus was in a too low position during pregnancy. She then stayed in bed for nearly 6 months until she gave birth.

In order to maintain the fetal position, she often needs to maintain a "head-down" posture. Since she is in bed almost 24 hours a day, in order to prevent leg muscle atrophy, she has an elastic band tied to the side of her bed. When no one helps her, she will use the elastic band to train on her own to maintain a certain physical condition.

In order to keep the fetus stable, she had to swallow 13 pills every day and received about 200 pregnancy-maintaining injections.

Facing a newborn baby, both celebrity moms and ordinary new moms generally have complicated emotions. While they are happy and moved, the pain from the wound and the lump of flesh on their belly that looks like lime mud make them look particularly embarrassed and tired.

During the confinement period, new mothers are not allowed to take a bath or wash their hair. They do not get enough sleep due to frequent breastfeeding, which makes them full of worries and helplessness. Many new mothers suffer from postpartum depression.

But even so, new mothers all say: In fact, every woman can do this. Even mothers who have experienced natural births converted to caesarean sections, difficult births, etc. do not find giving birth to be so difficult. The difficult part is that a woman has to immediately turn from a girl into a woman and a mother after giving birth.

The editor of No. 5.com said that although giving birth is painful, it is definitely a happy thing to think that there will be a lovely baby by your side in the future and watch her grow up. The pain and shame of giving birth have become nothing. Enjoy the feeling of being a mother~