How to educate children who disrespect their parents during their rebellious period?

Usually, many children will have rebellious thoughts when they reach a certain age. Since each child has a different personality, the manifestations of the rebellious period are also different. Therefore, let's find out how to educate children who are disrespectful to their parents during their rebellious period? Do children swear at their parents during their rebellious period?

In family relationships, children are actually in a dominated position and have a natural sense of awe for their parents. For children in the rebellious period, the first thing parents should do is to learn to discuss with their children on an equal footing. Children do not respect their parents mostly because their parents are overly pampered and indulgent. They do not stop their children's rebellious behavior in time, which causes children to lose their sense of awe for their parents. Respect them like friends and colleagues. The privacy awareness of children in the rebellious period can be said to be at its peak. Children do not respect their parents, which is also a manifestation of lack of compliance with rules. Children have poor self-control, are irritable and impulsive, and it is difficult to control themselves and they are prone to make mistakes. What parents have to do is to set rules for their children and set corresponding rewards and punishments. Many parents always feel that their children are still young and have a heavy academic burden, so they like to hide everything from their children at home. This is not good. Learning is important but not the only thing. Treat your children as an important member of the family and let them have the right to know and participate in big and small things. Doing so will surprise you with your children's growth.

1. Parents should learn to respect and trust their children. Children in adolescence undergo great changes both psychologically and physically. Children are eager to be recognized by the adult world and to announce to the world that they have grown up through rebellious behavior. At this time, what parents need to do is to support, affirm, and trust their children and have a good relationship with them, so that children can speak their minds to their parents.

2. Parents learn to communicate with their children on an equal footing. When my child and I have a dispute due to a difference of opinion, I will communicate with my child on an equal footing. If I am wrong and have misunderstood my child, I will take the initiative to admit my mistake to my child. Therefore, when we communicate with our children, we must communicate with them on an equal footing. Only in this way can we truly understand our children.

3. Parents should change their educational methods. When parents are with their adolescent children, they should never confront them head-on. Parents should first change their educational methods, encourage their children in time when they do well, and never criticize them when they make mistakes, but be tolerant of their mistakes.

1. Be patient: Due to work pressure, many parents do not spend time and effort to understand their children's psychology. Once the children make trouble or are disobedient at school, they will scold them without giving them a chance to explain. This will only lead to a deeper gap between the children and their parents, and the conflict will become greater. Therefore, parents must be patient enough and give their children a chance to explain.

2. Find the advantages and encourage more: Any adolescent child hopes to get recognition and encouragement from their parents, which will give them great motivation. Therefore, parents should not always focus on their children's shortcomings and always criticize them. Instead, they should be good at discovering their children's advantages, encourage them more, and enhance their self-confidence.

3. Think from the perspective of others: The era and environment in which parents grew up are different from the environment in which modern children grow up, and the parental education methods may not be suitable for children. If parents do not realize this, do not listen to their children's true inner thoughts, but blindly scold their children, it will only lead to intensified conflicts.

1. The first rebellious period: The irritability of 8 months is unfamiliar to you. The baby who is loved by everyone is willing to be hugged by anyone, but at this time, as long as someone other than the mother approaches, the baby will have a stern face, which means that the baby has entered the first rebellious period.

2. The first rebellious period: 2.5 to 3 years old, self-awareness sprouts. The baby's self-awareness sprouts quickly at this time, but now more and more babies begin to show rebellious behavior before the age of one. Because children are getting smarter and parents are more careful in educating their children, children have become more sensitive. The rebellious behavior of babies in this period is "hitting people". They will express their opposition through this behavior and express the consciousness of "no".

3. The second rebellious period: 7-9 years old, the quasi-adult period. The rebellious behavior of children in this stage is different from that of infants. They will feel that they are little adults. On the one hand, the children become willful and unreasonable, and always go against their parents; on the other hand, they are very dependent on their parents and cry a lot.