How to educate and guide children in their rebellious period? Is it good for children in their rebellious period to keep pets?

Children's rebellious period is usually a headache for parents, and parents should adopt the right way to actively guide their children. So let's learn how to educate and guide children in their rebellious period. Is it good for children in their rebellious period to keep pets?

From an early age, let your children know that there are rules in the world. Everyone will experience this rebellious period, and of course you should remain calm. Play with your children more, eat with them, go on outings, travel with them, and have more parent-child activities with them, so that you can understand them better. Parents should observe more and be more considerate of their children. You should know that educating children can no longer rely on simple and crude forms such as fist violence and insults. Turn the task into an interesting game, in which both parties are relaxed. In order to fully understand the child's situation in all aspects, you can communicate with the child's teacher in different ways, know how the child performs in school, know the teacher's address and mobile phone number, and facilitate ideological work with the child. You must master the knowledge of modern educational concepts to be a good parent and let your child walk well and walk the necessary process of adolescence in life.

If a child in the rebellious period likes pets very much, I think it is very good to have a pet. It can distract his attention and let the pet accompany him, making him feel better. The "rebellious period" is a manifestation of the child's growth and learning. You must not use the mentality of "enduring" and passively wait for time to pass naturally. Instead, you should actively participate, help and guide the child so that the child can learn more and grow faster in this stage. For example, irritability and depression are a state that children inevitably appear, but if the child is in this state for a long time, it is an abnormal phenomenon. Therefore, when it is found that the child does have problems in the process of growing up, the best way is to seek help from doctors and professionals in time, and never let it go. Understand the child's feelings. I no longer put myself on the opposite side of the child, but learn to stand in the child's position and experience his feelings with my heart. Find out the psychological reasons for resistance. Understanding does not mean not setting rules, but when setting rules for children, for those rules that he always resists, I no longer "enforce" them without reason, but find out the reasons for the child's resistance and then find ways to solve them.

1. Strong rebellious psychology, often talking back to parents. Talking back to parents is the norm for girls in the rebellious period. Regardless of whether what parents say makes sense or not, girls in the rebellious period will talk back to their parents, not listen to their parents, and only follow their own ideas.

2. All kinds of complaints and dislikes. They complain about teachers, parents, TV series, strangers, and anything they don’t like. They complain about everything, showing a mentality of disliking everyone. And they usually complain just to express that their ideas are correct.

3. Unwilling to go out with parents. Children in the rebellious period are unwilling to go out with their parents. They think that they are already adults and do not need to go out with their parents for everything. They can solve everything by themselves.

1. Find out the psychological reasons for resistance. Understanding does not mean not setting rules. However, when setting rules for children, I no longer "enforce" those rules that they always resist. Instead, I find out the reasons for their resistance and then find ways to solve them.

2. Find an outlet for your emotions. Education experts believe that many times, children intentionally do things that adults do not allow in order to vent their negative emotions or insecurities. In view of this, I no longer scold or physically punish Guoguo when he loses his temper.

3. Look for good performance of children. Praise can indirectly let children know right from wrong, so I pay more attention to some good performance of Guoguo and give praise in time.