20 golden rules to teach your children the importance of motherhood

International education organizations have proven through research that more than 90% of a child's quality is determined by their mother. In other words, a mother's education will affect the child's future and even his entire life? Based on the successful education examples of many parents around the world, the following 20 principles of educating children are summarized, hoping to help parents educate their children.

20 golden rules for mothers to educate their children

1. Mothers need to accompany their children during their growth process, constantly improve themselves, continue to learn, and use the knowledge and experience they have learned to effectively educate their children.

2. Treat children equally, as independent individuals and your friends, and communicate with them sincerely, so that you can understand your children's thoughts.

3. Maintain a positive attitude and avoid pessimism and sadness. Use optimism and self-confidence to create a positive influence and allow children's spirit to develop healthily.

4. Give children a certain amount of freedom, don’t be too harsh or restrictive, limit their imagination and freedom, and let them develop naturally.

5. Learn to praise and don’t be stingy with words of encouragement. Emphasize the child’s strengths, stimulate the child’s ability and upward spirit, and let the child feel the mother’s trust and love.

6. Do not arbitrarily restrict your children in the name of love, as this will suppress their personality and potential. Mothers need to learn to respect their children and turn their love for them into a driving force to help them progress.

7. Be a mother who can let go, don’t spoil your child too much, encourage your child to do his or her own things on his or her own initiative, and learn to affirm and praise your child’s good behavior.

8. When children make mistakes, you should use the correct educational methods. Do not scold or beat them at will, as this will only lead to conflicts and increased tension. Please educate your children rationally.

9. Children also have their own ideas and thoughts. Mothers need to encourage their children to express their opinions. This is a factor in ensuring the healthy mental health development of children and is also the basis for establishing good family relationships.

10. Encourage children to be honest, kind, trustworthy, compassionate, and willing to help people in need. Mothers should also be good role models for their children.

11. Educate children to respect, cherish and be filial to their elders. Let them know how to be grateful and repay, develop a proactive personality and take their own responsibilities.

12. Help children to regulate stress and guide them to learn to control their emotions. At the same time, mothers should also pay attention to their children's psychological changes and help them have a healthy mentality.

13. Don’t demand too much from your children. A mother’s demands must be in line with the laws of their children’s growth and allow them to experience the sense of accomplishment of success and happiness.

14. Guide children to think correctly from other people's perspectives, instead of just thinking about themselves. Encourage children to be tolerant and understanding, and not be too selfish.

15. Look at children’s achievements objectively, acknowledge the differences of each child, encourage children to express their own personality, and allow children to gradually improve themselves.

16. Use the right method to change your child's bad habits, do not scold or beat your child. At the same time, the mother must also be a good role model, because the mother's "personal example" is more effective than any other education.

17. If the child does not like to study, the mother should calmly find a way to guide the child to the right path. When the child enters adolescence, do not conflict or confront the child. Change the "authoritarian" and "authoritative" education method to a "soft" one and talk to the child more.

18. Help children understand the concept of "sex", eliminate their curiosity about sex, and let children have a correct understanding of sex.

19. Face the phenomenon of "early love" calmly, don't be too surprised or panic, please regard it as a normal phenomenon in the process of children's growth. Mothers need to guide children to go through adolescence safely and correctly, and don't be too serious or forceful in prohibiting it.

20. Mothers are the first, most frequent and longest contact with their children. Therefore, mothers are the most direct and specific influencers of their children. Every word and action of mothers will silently influence the growth of their children.

I hope the above educational methods can help parents find the most perfect way to educate their children.