Should heterosexual parents kiss their children on the mouth?

In life, we often see parents and children expressing their love with body language, but whether parents of the opposite sex should kiss their children on the mouth has become a hot topic for discussion. So today, let’s learn about children’s early education with the editor.

1. Before 3 years old: Try to kiss your baby less on the mouth

Normally, parents should try to kiss their baby's mouth as little as possible, especially when adults are wearing makeup or have infectious diseases such as viral colds, they should avoid such overly intimate actions to prevent the transfer of germs and other harmful substances to the baby.

2.3 years old: Use other methods to replace

Children around 3 years old already have gender awareness, and begin to awaken sexually around 10 years old. Parents and children can gradually express their love for their children by hugging, eye contact, and language instead of kissing on the cheek, especially fathers to their daughters.

1. Eat

Eating is a human instinct. If a child can grab a spoon, it means that he or she has the ability to eat independently. However, parents often see that the food their children eat is scattered all over the place, so they take the spoon and feed them themselves. Although they cannot eat the food cleanly and steadily, children want to try to eat by themselves, and this process also makes them feel very accomplished.

2. Room Allocation

When a child first starts sleeping separately from his parents, he may panic and lack a sense of security. At this time, just stay with him in his room and tell him with your actions that sleeping in a separate bed does not mean that your parents do not love you anymore. As long as you want, your parents will always be by your side. This is very effective in building a child's early sense of security.

3. Bathing together

When a child is very young, either parent can bathe the child, but girls mature early and boys mature late, so when a girl is three years old, the father should not bathe with his daughter. Similarly, the mother should not bathe with the boy when he is three or four years old. Both boys and girls have their own gender sensitivity period. If parents do not pay attention at this time, it is very likely to cause the child to confuse gender and have no boundaries when interacting with the opposite sex in the future.

4. Control what your children buy

Children also have their own needs. Don’t buy them what you think they want, and don’t buy them what you think they need. Before they become children, they are first of all independent people with things they want. Let them make their own decisions.

5. Underestimating your child

The child went on a long trip with his mother to visit his father. He wanted to help his mother drag the suitcase, but his mother said without thinking: You are too young to carry it. This situation is not uncommon in life. When children want to help adults do something, their parents either think that it is too hard and they don’t want them to do it, or they think that the children can’t do it and it’s useless. Why not let the children try it? Get out of the child’s protective zone and let the child get out of your protective desire, so that he can learn life skills early.

1. Give children some private space, free time, and let them do what they want.

When children grow up, give them some space of their own, so that they can develop more interests and independence.

2. Give children the opportunity and right to choose.

For example, when shopping, they can choose items. When making friends, they can choose friends they can get along with. This will greatly improve children's self-confidence in social life.

3. Let your children do some housework within their ability.

For example, washing his own clothes, boiling water and cooking, etc., let him realize that he is a member of the family. Let the child be the little master. This can also cultivate the child's hands-on ability.

4. Take serious questions and opinions raised by children seriously.

Treat children as adults, get along with them on an equal footing, and treat them as your friends. This is also a good way of communication. Sometimes we need to put down our parental airs and squat down to communicate with our children.

5. Prepare a display shelf for your child to display the items he or she has made.

This way, children can often appreciate their own works. At the same time, when relatives and friends come to visit, they can sincerely praise their children. That is a real encouragement! Discover the little progress of children in time and know how to appreciate them. Pay attention to the progress of children at any time, and let the children know their progress! Discover the little progress of children in time and know how to appreciate them.

1. We must realize that children’s independence needs to be cultivated from an early age.

2. Understanding the child’s development process is a prerequisite for cultivating the child’s independence.

3. Don’t do everything for your child. Let him do things within his ability.

4. Give your child questions and let him find the answers himself to cultivate his initial independent thinking ability.

5. Give children difficulties and let them solve them by themselves, so as to cultivate their spirit of overcoming difficulties.

6. Give children the right to make their own choices, respect their independent choices, and cultivate their ability to make their own decisions.

7. Cherish children’s intention for self-independence.

8. Use appropriate educational methods. Pay attention to the tone and manner of speaking to your child, listen carefully to your child, and make your child feel that you respect him.