What are the taboos for women before pregnancy

Newly married couples who have just finished their honeymoon want to add to their happiness by having a baby. In fact, choosing a good time for conception is also very important for "eugenics". The editor will give you detailed answers to these questions: how to increase the chance of conception, under what circumstances it is not suitable to conceive, and what precautions should be taken for conception in autumn and winter.

What are the taboos for women before pregnancy

1. After recent emotional fluctuations or mental trauma (great joy, wedding night; great sorrow, loss of relatives; unexpected accidents, etc.);

2. Excessive smoking and drinking, or after smoking and drinking;

3. The recovery time after reproductive organ surgery (diagnostic curettage, artificial abortion, intrauterine contraceptive device insertion and removal, etc.) is less than 6 months;

4. Conception occurs within 3 months after oral or implantable contraceptives are discontinued;

5. Pregnancy within two weeks after returning from a long business trip due to fatigue;

6. Conception during extremely cold or hot weather, or during heavy rain or thunder;

7. Having sex and getting pregnant on a full moon night can easily result in a mentally retarded or deformed baby.

8. The pregnancy occurred within 6 months after the birth and the cesarean section was performed within 1 year;

9. Pregnancy immediately after being away from toxic substances (e.g. pesticides, lead, mercury, cadmium, anesthetics, etc.);

10. Conception occurs within 3 months after X-ray exposure, radiation therapy, viral infection or medication for chronic diseases.

Physical condition determines fetal constitution

Because from a physiological point of view, during a honeymoon or long-distance trip, the couple is usually very tired and their sex life is not very coordinated. If they conceive at this time, the child's physique may be weak. It is also not suitable to conceive when one of the couple returns from a business trip. They should rest for more than two weeks to adjust their physical and mental state to the best.

Honeymoon is not a good time to conceive

To improve the quality of conception, it is very important for both husband and wife to be in a good mental state, but physical factors cannot be ignored. Zhai Jianjun, director of the Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology at Beijing Tongren Hospital, reminded couples returning from the National Day holiday that although both husband and wife are in a good mood during their honeymoon or long-distance travel, pregnancy at this time is not conducive to "eugenics".

Morning is better than night for conception

In the month before conception, the number of sexual intercourse should not be too frequent. It is best to have sex once during the woman's ovulation period. The best time for sexual intercourse is before getting up in the morning, rather than before going to bed at night, because people are more tired at night, while they are full of energy after resting in the morning. In addition, women are more likely to detect ovulation in the morning, and men's hormone levels are also higher.

Is it true that you can’t tell others about your pregnancy in the first three months?

Fetal instability in the critical period

The first three months of pregnancy are a critical period for fetal development, because 80% of accidents happen in the first three months. Some people think that the first three months of pregnancy are not stable, and modern people's physical conditions are not very good, so they worry that something will happen to the baby in these three months, and the unexpected surprise will be in vain.

Not mentally prepared

Pregnancy and childbirth are the most important things in a woman's life. When this happens, a series of questions will pop up in my mind. Countless TV dramas about my husband's pregnancy come to my mind. My weight has jumped from 90 catties to 140 catties, and I am completely mentally broken.

Impact on your work

Women are worried about being marginalized by their employers because of pregnancy or childbirth. In small and medium-sized enterprises and private enterprises, bosses pay employees for every day they work. Once women become pregnant or have children, these bosses will easily think that they have increased the company's costs.

The anger of the fetal god affects the fetus

The older generation believes that there is a fetal god during pregnancy who blesses the fetus to grow up healthily, but if the pregnancy is told too early, the fetal god will be unhappy and will harm the child, making it impossible for the child to stay.

Overexposure, no privacy limit

"Chasing and blocking" all kinds of sneak shots always puts a great psychological burden on celebrities. If they are not careful, they will make a big fuss.

Notes for expectant fathers

Accept the unique changes of pregnancy

The wife experiences changes in body shape, diet, mood, lifestyle, and increases in dependence on her husband.

Accept the changes in future living spaces

The birth of a child will make both husband and wife feel that their living space and freedom have become smaller than before, and they often find it difficult to adapt for a while.

Accept future emotional changes

No matter which spouse is involved, after the child is born, they will consciously or unconsciously transfer their emotions to the child, making the other spouse feel emotionally lacking or not valued.

Accepting increased family responsibilities and obligations

A pregnant wife needs her husband's understanding and consideration, especially the physical labor that the wife normally does, most of which will be transferred to the husband during pregnancy; after the child is born, the husband and wife's obligations to the child and to the family increase with the passage of time.