How to regulate the body of the second child? How to control the emotions of the second child

I just gave birth to my second child recently. As a mother, my emotions during pregnancy and childbirth are very volatile. How can I control these? How can I master the physical and psychological treatment methods?

Ways to prevent a second child:

1. When your wife is impatient, be sensible...

After get off work, no matter what time you get home, if you find your wife humming softly in the corridor, don't disturb her. This sign may mean that she just got angry and is sitting in a chair in the corridor in a daze.

At this time, please walk quickly to the living room where your wife has left you, pick up the crying baby, clean up the poop, comfort the little one, and comfort the hysterical, undressed, and hysterical older child who keeps punching you and stepping on your feet. Believe me, the 15 minutes you spend can almost represent what your wife is dealing with in a day, no wonder she loses her patience.

2. Timely consideration

Make an effort to let your wife feel more of your love, such as hugging her more, touching her hair, and pulling her closer. Her hair may be messy and greasy, her chest may always smell of milk because of spitting up, and sometimes she is so busy that she has to steal bath time.

Be more considerate of her! Don't make any special comments, tell your wife that you are still so beautiful and moving with your motherly love.

3. Don’t ask her when she’s going to work

It is absolutely unwise to impose unreality and fantasy on a woman who has just given birth two weeks ago.

4. Make your own dinner

If you are preparing, help your wife make some! Confinement meals can be tiresome sometimes, and you are busy all day with your baby's tantrums, changing diapers, coaxing him to sleep, and feeding him day and night. You really don't have the energy to prepare dinner properly. So, if time permits, help your wife prepare some.

※Remember to clean the kitchen, but not too clean, so that your wife will not be disappointed that she cannot do the same as you, and will feel that she cannot even complete such a small task.

5. Hold the baby for a while and let your wife have a good meal

If your wife asks you to hold the baby for a while, just hold it, instead of turning around and putting the baby down. As for how long you should hold the baby? I promise it won't be forever, just to let the mother do something she wants to do, such as freeing her hands to have a good meal.

6. Learn to eat with one hand like your wife

Gentlemen, do you want to experience the feeling of your wife taking care of the baby while eating? Try eating with one hand! It is best to hold a puppet on your left hand and pretend that the puppet is sucking milk, while your other hand should elegantly hold the plate and eat noodles. After experiencing it, you will know that it is really not easy to take care of two children at the same time!

7. See your wife sleeping? Let her have a good sleep!

If you ignore the above suggestions, it’s okay, but you must remember this: unless it is really important, don’t wake your wife up and ask her stupid questions when she is sleeping.

If you encounter a problem and want to solve it, you might as well find the answer yourself first. It doesn't matter if you do it in a 2266 way. Of course, your wife may scold you when she wakes up and ask why you did it like this, but so what? At least the problem is solved and she will understand.

Finally, enjoy this journey. The children will grow up soon, and these days will pass quickly. Don't forget to leave some smiling memories for yourself. As the children grow older, their sleep patterns will gradually become regular, and your wife will begin to take care of the twins. As a husband, you don't need to be perfect, but you probably don't want to mess things up. Just try your best to do what you can!