Does everyone have a rebellious period? What causes a rebellious period?

Many parents know more or less about their children’s rebellious period, because children usually show rebellious behavior when they reach a certain age. So we need to understand whether everyone has a rebellious period? What causes the rebellious period?

In fact, most children still have a rebellious period. The rebellious period is an inevitable developmental stage, but the degree of rebellion of each child is different. In the process of rebellion, anxiety, disappointment and helplessness are triggered, which finally becomes what we call the rebellious period. When parents educate their children, they often encounter children who talk back or resist passively. For this reason, some parents are very troubled. Some get irritated and teach them with "sticks". As a result, not only does it fail to achieve the purpose of education, but it forms a vicious circle and even leads to serious adverse consequences. For every time period, children will have a rebellious period. According to different ages, different genders will have a rebellious period. As a parent, first of all, you should stay calm and suppress the "anger" in your heart. It is not appropriate to adopt a "high-pressure policy" or rude behavior, otherwise, it will intensify the child's confrontational emotions. Parents should communicate with their children frankly, exchange views, reasonably adopt their children's opinions, and enlighten them.

As for the rebellious period of children, in fact, in the process of children's growth, they will go through this period, which is from a childhood stage to a teenage stage. Then at this time, the rebellious period of children will begin to form and they will easily develop a rebellious mentality, because it is difficult for children at this stage to form and transform from a childhood to a teenager. So for them, during this period, they need the understanding and tolerance of adults, and then they also need someone to listen and care, so. The rebellious period of children is basically formed in this way. The rebellious period is a psychological transition period for children to enter adolescence, which mainly occurs in adolescence. Therefore, many people will also believe that the rebellious period is adolescence. In fact, they are in the same period. It will happen naturally. When children enter the rebellious period, parents should be able to strengthen their guidance and take them on the right path. Almost every child in the rebellious period thinks that he can do everything, and parents are no longer high and mighty in their eyes, but very mediocre, and feel that their understanding will be much stronger than their parents. But since they are still children, their psychological consciousness is not fully developed, and they do not think things comprehensively. Therefore, children in their rebellious period often do wrong things, and parents should be vigilant.

Clinical manifestations of the rebellious period. Many children will experience a rebellious period in the fifth and sixth grades of elementary school and after junior high school. The main manifestations of the rebellious period are that they always feel that they have grown up, their self-awareness is enhanced, they always feel that their parents are wrong, and they often challenge the authority of their parents and teachers. They are manifested as talking back, having a bad relationship with their parents, and are reluctant to tell their parents many things. Some also have large mood swings, often inexplicably irritable, poor emotional control, often lose their temper for trivial matters, dislike their parents nagging, and get very irritated when their parents say a few more words. Gradually, they are unwilling to go out with their parents, always like to stay at home, or go out with classmates. They are not very willing to be with adults, and always feel that adults do not understand themselves. Pay attention to the opposite sex, and gradually pay a lot of attention to the opposite sex's dress and appearance. They are also very concerned about some of their own clothes and love face.

As children grow older, they undergo significant changes not only physically but also psychologically, which is commonly known as the "rebellious period". At this time, the child's independent and self-satisfied adult consciousness begins to awaken, and they strongly desire to break away from the control and constraints of their parents, hoping to do what they want according to their own wishes and ideas. So when parents want to intervene in everything, it will naturally cause dissatisfaction in their children, or even resistance. Therefore, the method of fighting violence with violence is not desirable, which will only increase the child's disgust with their parents and increase their rebellious psychology. When there is a conflict between children and parents, parents should give their children an equal voice, listen to their children's voices patiently, and sometimes need to restrain their emotions, and don't refute or disagree with their children's views and actions at every turn. When children really make mistakes, don't scold them regardless of the occasion, which is easy to hurt the child's self-esteem and aggravate the gap between the two generations. There should be ways to promote children to correct their mistakes. However, sometimes when children are emotional, parents can try to deal with it coldly, and wait for the children to calm down before continuing to discuss the original topic.