Children's interpersonal relationships start with learning to respect each other

Maintaining good interpersonal relationships is a profound learning process, which should be paid special attention to from childhood, starting with learning to respect each other. Excellent interpersonal relationships can help children succeed in the future and cultivate their intelligence and emotional intelligence.

My son has loved friends since he was young. It may be because he is an only child that he wants to have companions, or it may be because I often instill in him the importance of friends. If his friends like his stationery or toys, he will generously give them to them. When he was in kindergarten, he often quarreled with his friends because he gave things to his friends and regretted it later. I taught him: think carefully before giving things, and once given, they are someone else's things and cannot be taken back. When he went to elementary school, he gradually understood this principle and could distinguish between things that he "can't bear to give up" and things that "can" be given. But recently, he often quarreled with his good friends, and he was very angry when he went home, and sometimes he said he didn't want to go to school. Later, I found out that it turned out that his friends wanted to take back the things they agreed to give him, saying: Give it back to me, otherwise I will be beaten by my mother. My son thought that he was not trustworthy and insisted on not returning it, so the other party pushed him and beat him. I know my son is a reasonable child. He was wronged, what can I do?

The mother can be curious about the cause of the quarrel and find out the problem points, such as regret.

Mothers can encourage their children to share and be responsible: sometimes they want to share their things, and sometimes they don’t. If they don’t want to share, they can tell their friends clearly.

It’s okay to give things to others for the sake of educating your children. You are also a generous mother!

Relationships are created by you and me. When we feel good about each other and there are fair rules, friendships can last and bring satisfaction. Children come from different families and naturally have different values. Children can learn from their interactions with friends that they don’t have to listen to my ideas. This generosity is the gift that friendship gives back to us as we grow.

Affirm that the child has grown from kindergarten to elementary school. Because he likes his friends, he wants to give them things. But now he has learned not to do things that he will regret. It is really great. And talk to the child: Maybe his friends are still learning not to regret this. Maybe parents in every family have different ideas. In our family, there is only one child, so the things mom gives you are yours. But some people have younger brothers and sisters, and their things belong to everyone, not just one person. He may want to give you a gift, but it is also difficult.

Encourage your children to think about this: If they really like playing with friends and don’t want to argue over giving things away, is it possible to talk to their friends about borrowing things for a day, three days or a week? This way they can play with a lot of things without hurting any feelings?

The importance of friends to children lies in enriching their interpersonal experiences. Children are stimulated by friends and then learn how to advance and retreat.