How to help your baby stop feeding at night How to help your baby stop feeding at night

The most difficult thing for mothers is the baby crying for feeding at night. Sometimes they have to ask for feeding several times a night, and they are very tired to take care of the baby during the day. What's worse, the baby is still like this when he is one or two years old. If you want to help your baby change this habit, the following are three methods shared by mothers to help babies quit crying at night.

How to help your baby stop drinking milk at night

1. “Be cruel, be cruel, and be cruel again!” Silvia, a hot mom of two, uses her method to stop feeding at night

@Silvia, the mother of Bao, has two babies, a sister and a brother. The mother started training the sister to stop feeding at night when she was three months old. She would ignore the baby even if she cried. As a result, the sister stopped feeding at night very quickly! ~ The same method was used for the brother, but the brother cried more than the sister... As a result, the brother was not weaned from feeding at night until he was six months old~

Let me talk about training my sister first. Girls are all angels. Since the pediatrician told me that I could train my baby not to drink milk at night at three months old, humans don’t need to eat at night! You know, I raised my first baby according to the book, and immediately trained my daughter when she was 2 months and 3 weeks old. I fed her at 9 o'clock on the first night, and she cried at 12 o'clock in the middle of the night. My heart was bleeding! My hormones exploded and I wanted to hold her, but my husband held me and wouldn't let me go! Haha! As a result, my daughter cried tired and fell asleep. After 20 minutes, we checked to make sure she was okay, but she slept until 9 o'clock the next morning. The next day, I put on earmuffs and let the baby cry. She cried for about 20 minutes and fell asleep. The third night was from 9 o'clock to 9 o'clock the next morning! Angel! The following days were really much better, although my milk would swell in the middle of the night, and it was super painful and I still had to get up to express milk. But at least I didn't have to feed her at night. It's very good for the development of the brain and bones for children to sleep through the night. Anyway, breastfeeding is so sad. No matter how well I sleep, my baby won’t be bloated for more than 6-7 hours.

Next, let me talk about my younger brother. Oh my! What a sin! Giving birth to a boy is a sin! Hahahaha! It was the same when I started to stop feeding him at three months old. But he cried for 20 minutes but it was useless. I went to check on him and he said, "I love you, but it's time to sleep." I had to make sure he was okay, but I just didn't want to hold him. I couldn't hold him! I had to hold it in! ! ! As a result, I checked on him every 20 minutes, and then he cried miserably for 3 hours! The whole family couldn't sleep. It was over! I gave up! My mom said that maybe boys just eat more. Then I kept delaying! Damn, when my son was 6 months old! Wipe it! I can't stand it anymore!!! I want to sleep! I don't want to become a yellow-faced woman! Damn, I refuse to age quickly and commit chronic suicide!!! Then when my son was 6 months old, I started to stop feeding him at night. It was the same as letting him cry but not holding him. As a result, my son cried for 15 minutes and fell asleep. He cried for 15-20 minutes and fell asleep for two nights. It was done on the third night! This way I can get a full 6-7 hours of sleep!

To all the breastfeeding mommies in the world, it’s too painful!!! You can let others feed your baby with formula! Hahaha! Both of my babies have excellent immunity, it’s really worth it! Because when the baby is sick, it’s the hardest time for parents!

Yes, when I was feeding my baby at night, I slept in two beds in one room. After I stopped feeding my baby at night, each baby had a room of their own. It’s still the same now! I have two sleepy babies who sleep from 7:30 pm to 7:30 am. 12 hours is a must! Wow!

2. "The key is to have a regular schedule for drinking milk!" via @MiRanDa麻咪

The most critical step in the experience of @ MiRanDa's baby to stop feeding at night is to have a regular feeding schedule! Since the confinement period, the mother strictly followed the midwife's instructions to feed the baby every 3 hours, so the baby's feeding schedule is very regular~ Then the mother gradually extended the time to 4 hours... and so on, the baby's biological clock will slowly move backwards! In the end, you will be surprised to find that the baby can sleep through the night, all night long!

My son is an angel baby. He basically slept and ate during the confinement period. When he was 7 weeks old, he could sleep from 11pm to 6:30am the next day without feeding. When he was nearly 5 months old, he could sleep 11 or 12 hours a night. The reason why he sleeps so well is still due to training. If you want your baby to sleep through the night, you must first let your baby drink milk and have a regular routine. During the confinement period, the midwife told me to feed the baby every 3 hours, about 100ml of milk each time. I followed it very strictly. Basically, I burped the baby for 15-30 minutes after feeding, and the baby woke up for 15-30 minutes, and then slept for about 2 hours. Every day, I kept repeating this 3-hour cycle of feeding. Slowly, you will find that the baby's stomach has become an alarm clock, and he will wake up to drink milk at a certain time. If the baby is still sleeping, you have to wake him/her up to feed him/her. If you feed your baby when he/she cries in the middle of the night, it will be difficult for him/her to sleep through the night. So make sure your baby is full when feeding, especially mothers who breastfeed usually don't know how much their baby drinks. Basically, 10-15 minutes of feeding is considered full. Don't let your baby drink a little like a snack and then stop drinking. This is not possible for a newborn baby to last for 3 hours, and he will definitely cry in the middle. What if the baby is full but wakes up early and cries in the middle? Try to coax him instead of feeding him, and divert his attention until it's time to feed. If the baby's 3-hour cycle is successful, you can gradually extend it to 4 hours, first 3 and a half, then 4 hours. In short, make sure to feed him every 4 hours. It can be flexible but not more than half an hour, otherwise the schedule will be easily disrupted. If one meal is disrupted, it doesn't matter, just pull it back with the next meal. If it's disrupted today, do it again tomorrow. It's best to set a fixed time. My Kuo Kuo feeds at 7am/11am/3pm/7pm/11pm every day, and the 3am meal in the middle of the night is to help him quit. During the day, you must follow the order of feeding, playing, and sleeping for each meal. Playing is very important. You must let your baby play for 30 minutes after each feeding, such as practicing lifting his head, massaging the baby, talking to the baby, etc. If you skip this step, the baby will probably wake up in the middle of the night because he sleeps too much during the day. But if it is the last meal, such as the 11pm meal, I will not play with the baby. Basically, I will coax him to sleep directly after feeding and burping him, otherwise he will be too excited to sleep. If your baby has established a 4-hour schedule, then congratulations, you are not far from success.

The following is the key point of how to stop feeding at night. If you have established a 4-hour schedule, you will find that your baby will wake up at about 3am to drink milk. Feed at 3am on the first night, and try to delay feeding until 3:30am on the second night. If the baby cries, coax him, don't feed him as soon as he cries. In fact, it's okay to cry for 10 minutes. On the third night, delay it to 4am. By analogy, the baby's biological clock will slowly move back, and then you will be surprised to find that the baby can sleep until 6am. Some mothers break down halfway because they feel that if the baby cries and there is no response, the baby will feel insecure. On the contrary, I think if we help the baby establish a regular schedule, the baby will know what to do at what time and feel safe. Also, don't let the baby fall asleep in your arms when sleeping. You can hold and coax him, but put him down as soon as he closes his eyes and wants to sleep. Don't hold and feed him as soon as he cries. Every family member must be in one camp and stick to it, otherwise it will be difficult to establish a schedule. Many friends around me have succeeded, and some are because their grandparents are taking care of their almost 1-year-olds, and sleeping is still a big problem.

In short, if you persevere, you will see results in one or two months. I also suggest that you start training during the confinement period, and don't wait until the baby has his own habits before training, which will basically be difficult. I hope everyone can live a good life of sleeping through the night.

3. "Letting your baby sleep in a crib independently is the first step to stop feeding at night" via @LillianBear

He is currently three months old. His daily sleep pattern is roughly two long naps during the day, each lasting 4-5 hours, a short nap generally lasting 2-3 hours, and he sleeps through the night for 6-7 hours without feeding (recently he has occasionally been able to sleep for more than 8 hours, which surprised me. As the baby grows older, his daytime sleep will become shorter and more fragmented, but his nighttime sleep will become longer and longer). The rest of the time is spent on feeding, playing and bathing.

Now, let’s get back to the topic. First, let me introduce the living environment of the sleeping god fat watermelon.

Our family of three lives in New York. Watermelon's dad and I are the only relatives around Fat Watermelon. His grandparents, uncles, aunts, brothers, sisters, and younger sisters are all in China. They were not even around when Fat Watermelon was born. We didn't hire a confinement nanny or go to a confinement center, etc. Therefore, a grim and cruel reality lies before Watermelon's dad and I. We must learn to raise a baby independently.

Actually, for me and my dad, it is not feasible to take care of the baby 24 hours a day. We have our own things to do. We are in the start-up stage, and my dad is studying for a doctorate and working part-time. So it is of utmost importance for us to develop a good schedule for the baby.

∨Baby should sleep independently (in a crib)

When Xigua was just born and was still in the hospital, he slept in a small bed prepared by the hospital. After returning home, we also let Xigua sleep in the small bed. Fat Xigua has never slept in a big bed, so he doesn't dislike sleeping in a small bed or cry when put in the small bed.

If your baby is used to sleeping in a big bed next to an adult, or has the habit of sleeping directly on the milk, it is recommended to gradually adjust to this habit, which will only benefit the baby. You can first change the habit of sleeping on the milk, burp the baby after he is full, and then let the baby lie flat in the crib and play with him for a while, pay attention to capturing the baby's sleep signals and guide him to sleep.

Benefits of having your baby sleep in a crib independently:

Safety: Babies sleeping with adults are at risk of being crushed, hit, or covered by the quilts of adults. Babies sleeping in their own cribs can avoid the above problems. Note that when babies fall asleep in cribs, extra quilts, pillows, plush toys, etc. should be removed to prevent the risk of suffocation. Stability: Adults turning over and other actions will affect the baby's sleep. Babies are very sensitive to hearing and touch, and even the slightest vibration or sound will wake up a sleeping baby. Babies sleeping in cribs will sleep more peacefully and avoid being disturbed by adults.

∨ Make sure your baby is well fed

I believe that every mother has her own judgment on whether the baby is full. When Xigua was less than one month old, his pediatrician told me that a baby as big as Xigua should not eat for at least three hours when he is full. In other words, the baby either sleeps for three hours directly (the baby will eat more and sleep longer when he grows up), or the baby wakes up for various reasons in the middle of the night, but still does not need to eat. Here is a blackboard! Don't think that the baby is hungry when he wakes up or cries, and feed him. Although feeding can temporarily relieve the problem of crying, it will cause indigestion in the long run, which is a vicious cycle. If the baby wakes up and cries for less than three hours, first observe the reason for the baby's crying, whether it is caused by flatulence or whether he just woke up and needs to sleep again.

Symptoms of bloating can be found on Google or Baidu, so I won't go into details here. Here's how I treated Fat Watermelon.

∨ Give your baby a nap in time

Fat Watermelon now sleeps for more than 5 hours most of the time (2-3 hours in the first month, and then gradually longer).

Sometimes Fat Watermelon will wake up after sleeping for three hours at night. At this time, I can hear him kicking his legs, gurgling or sucking his fingers. At this time, I just need to give him a clean pacifier that I prepared in advance, and he will fall asleep again immediately. Fat Watermelon sometimes wakes up from nightmares or suddenly wakes up crying. This is a little harder to get back to sleep. I need to pat him gently or pick him up to let him calm down slowly, then put him back to the crib and immediately give him a pacifier. Generally, he will fall asleep again within a minute. (Here is the blackboard❗️You should put the baby down after he calms down. Don't hold him until he falls asleep again. Don't develop the habit of holding him to sleep.)

But sometimes Fat Watermelon wakes up in the middle of the night because he is full of sleep. At this time, he is different from when he needs to sleep. He no longer makes noises or cries. Instead, he opens his eyes and plays by himself, or looks around with his eyes wide open. At this time, Fat Watermelon does not make much noise. I often find him playing by himself or in a daze with his eyes open when I look over. When he finds me looking at him, he will immediately smile happily at me [blow kiss R]. Then what I need to do at this time is to play with him [cute R].

∨ Ensure that your baby has enough time for activities and play every day

When the baby has a good sleep and is energetic, he needs someone to play with him, not to hold him and walk around. When Fat Watermelon is awake, my father and I will do gas-exhaustion exercises, passive exercises, or prone exercises for him (pediatricians recommend that babies should have enough tummy time every day). When Fat Watermelon was two months old, he began to notice his little hands, and would take the initiative to touch things, hold the pacifier by himself, etc. At this time, I added another item to play with his hands when playing with him. Playing with hands includes many kinds, such as putting Manhattan balls or other toys that can shake and make sounds in front of Watermelon to guide him to grasp, holding his little hands to touch toys of various textures, such as gently poking his little hands when he looks at his little hands to let him feel the interaction, such as adults putting their hands in front of him for him to touch, etc. (I think this "hand-playing game" is also one of the reasons why Fat Watermelon's fine motor skills developed relatively early). By the way, there is also the babybjorn rocking chair and toys mentioned in the previous notes, which is also one of the toys that Fat Watermelon must play with after waking up [Baji R].

With enough (here we say "enough" rather than "excessive", excessive play will make the baby extremely excited, making him fussy and difficult to coax back to sleep) exercise and play interaction, it not only promotes the development of the baby's intelligence, muscles, etc., but more importantly, helps him fall asleep better in the next round.

∨Accurately capture your baby’s sleep signals

Here I would like to share with you the five stages of Fat Watermelon’s autonomous sleep.

1. Happy stage after eating and drinking enough [proud]

After eating, when Fat Watermelon is burped and put in his crib, he will dance with joy (please refer to my other note on burping techniques for the importance of burping). When I look at him, he will make faces and smile at me (when he is too sleepy, he will usually fall asleep directly after burping and put in his crib, so this stage is omitted). At this time, I usually play with him for a while, such as telling him stories, looking at cards, playing hand games, etc.

I want to emphasize here that you should avoid feeding your baby to sleep! There are many disadvantages to feeding your baby to sleep. For example, if your baby goes to sleep right after drinking milk without burping him, it will cause the baby to spit up milk. Spitting up milk during sleep can easily cause suffocation, which is even more terrible. It is also easy to develop a habit of not sleeping without drinking milk. The mother will feed the baby frequently in order to let the baby sleep, which will cause indigestion in the baby, etc.

2. The irritable stage before falling asleep [anger]

After playing for a while, Watermelon slowly started to become less excited than before. He started sucking his fingers or picking up the quilt and putting it in his mouth. At this time, you have to stop playing with him in time, otherwise he will have a hard time falling asleep after playing too much and starting to make a fuss. I usually give him a pacifier during the irritable stage, but Watermelon at this time will not suck the pacifier honestly. He likes to fiddle with it and often knock it out. At this time, I need to be patient enough to help him pick it up a few more times and then give it to him, or touch his chubby legs and forehead, which also has a soothing effect. Generally, after about 10 minutes, the fat Watermelon will calm down and suck the pacifier steadily. (Watermelon sometimes refuses the pacifier and wants to put his little hands in his mouth. If he still doesn't suck the pacifier after trying a few times, I won't compete with him. In short, the key at this stage is not to make him angry.)

3. Thinking about the daze stage of life [Girl’s Heart]

When Fat Watermelon sucks his pacifier, he likes to stare at me or be in a daze. Usually, I lie down next to him (next to his crib is my big bed) and read a book or my phone. The most important thing at this stage is to stay with him and not leave (if you leave, the baby will feel insecure and will look around for his mother, and all your efforts will be wasted), but don't disturb him and let him stay alone quietly. Then I look at Fat Watermelon again. He has either fallen asleep or entered the fourth stage.

4. The stage of wanting to sleep but not wanting to [picking nose] (most fat watermelons skip this stage and move directly to the fifth stage [blowing kiss R])

At this stage, the fat watermelon's eyelids are so sleepy that they are fighting, but he just closed them and then tried to open them again, or twisted his head and grunted a few times. What I have to do at this time is to make sure his pacifier does not fall off, or if it falls off, I will help him pick it up immediately, because if the fat watermelon at this stage is unhappy, he will make a fuss when sleeping, and the sleeping period will be longer.

5. Sweet light sleep stage [drowsiness]

Generally, if the fourth stage occurs, it will last for about five minutes, and Fat Watermelon will fall asleep. At this time, I will quietly cover him with the quilt and stay away from him to do my own things. I stay away from him because I am worried that I will accidentally make a noise and wake him up. Letting him stay alone is actually to ensure a better sleeping environment for him.

Tips for a good sleep:

∨Use sleeping bags to prevent jumps

Newborn babies prefer the feeling of being wrapped. Wrap-type sleeping bags can not only give babies a sense of security like in the mother's womb, but also prevent startle. Small babies are more likely to sleep through the night in sleeping bags. However, when babies are a little older, they don't like to have their arms wrapped. They will struggle and affect their sleep. So mothers should pay attention to the baby's behavior. When you find that the baby no longer likes to have his arms bound, help the baby take his arms out of the sleeping bag. The sleeping bag should only cover the body to prevent cold [cute R].

∨ Suitable indoor temperature and humidity

The ideal temperature of a baby's sleeping environment is 68-72 degrees Fahrenheit (20-22.2 degrees), and the appropriate humidity is 30-60%. If the humidity is too low, the baby's respiratory system will be uncomfortable, the nose and throat will be dry, and the baby will sleep unsteadily. If the humidity is too high, it will cause asthma and other problems.

Before I took Xigua out of the hospital, his pediatrician specifically told me that if the room is very dry, I should prepare a humidifier for the baby, the kind with a spray, but don't spray it directly at the baby, and keep it at a certain distance from the baby's crib. The air humidity in New York in summer is not bad, it is always around 50%, and it will occasionally soar to nearly 70 when it rains [shame R], but it is very painful to turn on the heater in winter. Without a humidifier, the air humidity in the room is only about 30%. During my pregnancy, I turned on two humidifiers and my nose was still dry and always cracked and bleeding. It would be even more uncomfortable for the baby. So a humidifier is also a must-have in winter.

As for the temperature, when I took Xigua to the pediatrician for the first checkup, he asked about the indoor temperature. I said it was 77 degrees (25 degrees). The doctor directly said that my temperature was too high and asked me to control it below 73 degrees (22.7 degrees) [crying R]. But Xigua's mother is too afraid of cold, so the indoor temperature has been kept at about 75 degrees. At this temperature, the baby can wear a thin sleeping bag or a gauze swaddle to sleep, which is very comfortable and ensures that the baby will not wake up from the heat during sleep.

∨Establish a sleep ritual

In the first month of Fat Watermelon, I would turn on the heartbeat sound mode of the soothing toys before going to bed. Fat Watermelon would know it was time to go to bed by listening to this sound, and he would sleep very soundly every time. I know that some mothers would arrange for their babies to take a bath, touch, tell stories, etc. before going to bed, which are all good ways to establish a sense of sleep ritual.

∨Take your baby out to play often

First of all, babies should be exposed to fresh air, sunbathe, and see new things more often, which are good for the baby's development in all aspects. Another biggest benefit is that the baby will sleep more soundly at night. Watermelon's father and I often take the baby to the park, the supermarket, etc. Once, Fat Watermelon slept upside down, thinking it was daytime when it was dark, and slept for two hours and got up high. I had to get up to play with him, because I was so sleepy [laughing and crying R]! So I took Fat Watermelon out to play for a day the next day, and when I came back, Fat Watermelon adjusted his biological clock back [proud R]. It should be emphasized here that taking the baby out to play during the day does not mean that he should be kept awake and not let him sleep. The baby needs sufficient sleep, which is good for the baby's development. Every time Watermelon's father and I take Watermelon out, he actually sleeps most of the time. For example, Watermelon likes to ride in the car very much, and he falls asleep as soon as the car starts. For example, Watermelon also likes to sleep in the baby stroller's sleeping basket. Pushing him to stroll around the park and the mall, he sleeps well no matter how noisy the environment is. But even so, as long as the baby has a little awake time in nature, it will help him sleep well at night [cute R]!

∨Try to play with your child as much as possible and avoid sleeping in your arms

As I said before, babies can fall asleep on their own when they are tired from playing. You must not hold your baby until he falls asleep. Babies who fall asleep in your arms are more likely to wake up when they fall to the ground, and frequent waking up when they fall to the ground will lead to a vicious cycle of waking up when they fall to the ground. As for babies, they actually prefer you to play with them rather than hold them all the time. So as long as your baby does not cry so hard that you have to hold him up to comfort him, then try to put him down and sit next to him to play with him and talk to him. If the baby is irritable, find anything with bright colors or sounds to divert his attention, and the baby will slowly calm down [baji R].

∨∨Use pacifier correctly

Everyone knows the 5-second soothing method: swaddle, side or stomach position (I want to emphasize here that letting the baby lie "sideways" is a very good way to soothe the baby, which is very effective for the stage of fussing and sleeping. My fat watermelon can almost fall asleep in seconds by lying on his side and sucking the pacifier at the same time), shush, swing, suck. Among them, "sucking" is the most effective way to soothe the baby. I believe that many mothers have also discovered this rule, but they use it wrongly in practice, such as sleeping with milk, feeding the baby as soon as the baby cries, etc. As I just said, frequent feeding will cause indigestion in the baby, so it is absolutely not advisable. The pacifier can solve the sucking problem very well. It is a magic tool for soothing the baby when the baby is sleeping and fussing. However, the introduction of the pacifier must be carried out after the baby has completely adapted to sucking the mother's nipple (newborns sucking the pacifier before they have adapted to sucking the mother's nipple can easily cause nipple confusion and affect breast milk). If you use a pacifier correctly, your baby will not become dependent on it. For example, every time Xigua is about to fall asleep, he will spit out the pacifier, then turn his head and fall asleep. Sometimes he falls asleep too quickly and forgets to spit it out. I help him take it out and he won’t wake up at all [shy R].

∨Can introduce milk bottles appropriately

I believe this is the most controversial point. There is nothing wrong with mothers insisting on breastfeeding. After all, breastfeeding has many benefits, such as stimulating the mammary glands to secrete milk, establishing a good parent-child relationship with the baby, and making the baby feel more secure. However, if the mother does not have much milk and it takes a long time to feed the baby, then it is appropriate to introduce a bottle. Because the baby is easily tired and falls asleep after sucking for a long time, but is not full. This repeatedly affects the baby's sleep, and long-term sucking can also cause bloating. For mothers with less milk or less frequent milk, using a bottle to replenish the baby with an appropriate amount of milk after breastfeeding is a good way to make the baby full and fall asleep as soon as possible [cute R].

I think there are many benefits of feeding the baby with a bottle, for example, it is easier to control the baby's food intake, facilitate regular feeding times, shorten the eating time and make it easier for both adults and babies, etc... This is also my personal experience and is for reference only. For me, introducing the bottle has indeed made me feel a lot more relaxed, and Watermelon also eats more and sleeps better [cute R].

Regarding the issue of night weaning that everyone is most concerned about

This is how I understand weaning from night feeding. When Xigua was less than a month old, he had a large appetite and could eat 80ml at a time. His pediatrician told me that he would not be hungry for at least 3 hours. Later, as Xigua grew up, his appetite increased, and his sleep time after each meal also gradually lengthened. I did not deliberately wean Xigua from night feeding, because I fed him on demand from the beginning to the end. It can be said that Xigua weaned himself from night feeding!

As I mentioned in the notes above, the baby should sleep independently, make sure the baby is full before going to bed, do not let the baby develop the habit of sleeping with milk, train the baby to fall asleep independently, do not use feeding as a way to comfort the baby, and be able to judge whether the baby is hungry or needs to be put to sleep when the baby wakes up at night, and be able to put the baby to sleep in time and smoothly. If all these are done well, the baby will naturally sleep through the night without the need for midnight feeding. The baby will be happier when he wakes up if he sleeps well at night, and the mother will be energetic, which is the beginning of a virtuous circle.

There is also the so-called "cry immunity method", which I have no comment on. If Xigua cries, I will definitely pick him up and comfort him, because Xigua does not cry 99% of the time. If he cries, it must be because he is very sad or uncomfortable. And Xigua will not cry before he falls asleep on his own, at most he will be irritable. When he wakes up at night and needs to be slept, he will hum but not cry (unless he has a nightmare and suddenly bursts into tears, then I will definitely go over and pat him and pick him up until he stops crying and then put him down again). So for me personally, I will definitely not use the "cry immunity" method [Goodbye R].

[Proud R] Okay, this is the little experience that I, a poor mother who raises a child independently, have summarized to help babies establish a good schedule. I hope it will be helpful to you [cute R].

But since I started to cultivate watermelon according to the method mentioned above, and watermelon grew well every step of the way, it was very worry-free, so I don’t have similar experience in how to help babies "correct" or "reshape" certain habits [shy R]. Here, I also hope that mothers with such experience will leave a message and share your tips for raising children [flying kiss R].

Final words

Every baby is an angel baby. The reason why there are all kinds of difficult problems is mostly because the habit formation is not done well from the beginning. But then again, every mother is trying to gain experience in the battle. Who is born to take care of babies [cute R]? I believe that mothers will get better and better on the road of taking care of babies, and babies will eventually become angel babies!

Well, today’s “three tricks” are introduced here. Have you learned the tricks that are suitable for you? !