Is it okay for an American mother to ask someone to photoshop the photo of her daughter after abusing her to death?

Every time I see a case of child abuse, I can't help but feel sad. Fortunately, my mother loved me very much when I was a child. Let's find out the truth of the matter. As a soldier, we know the identity of this American mother, but as a mother, she is a murderer.

American mother abused her daughter to death

1. Recently, a photographer named Sunny Jo from Pennsylvania, USA, helped a 23-year-old mother who lost her daughter to Photoshop a group of photos with her deceased daughter. However, he never expected that the young mother was the murderer who killed her daughter. Last week, the mother suspected of abuse to death was arrested by the police and appeared in court on Monday. Once the crime is proven, she will not escape punishment.

2. Shortly after her daughter died, Ditty contacted the photographer and told him that her daughter had choked to death while eating a banana, and hoped that he could help her take a group photo to commemorate her dead daughter. The photographer was moved by Ditty and agreed to her request without charging any fees.

3. "I wanted to help this orphaned mother relieve her pain, but I didn't expect she was the murderer. After knowing the truth, I couldn't sleep for many days," Sunny Jo told reporters in an interview. The mother's name is Jeanie Ditty, and she is an active-duty soldier. In addition to Ditty, her boyfriend Zachary Earl Keefer also faces the same charges.

4. After the incident, the army Ditty served in said that even during the investigation, Ditty still maintained his active military status. The suspect's military status brought many difficulties to the trial of the case, but the lawyer involved in the investigation insisted on conducting the trial to the end to ensure the fairness and justice of the law. The picture shows the little girl Macy who died in this case.

Autistic child proud of learning diamond painting

When it was the most difficult, I cried while working

"Hanghang is 18 years old this year. He couldn't speak when he was 3 years old. The doctor diagnosed him with autism." In the classroom, Zhang Jiangying sorted out the child's materials and told reporters that she was completely confused at the time. She grew vegetables at home and didn't know what disease this was.

In 2002, Zhang Jiangying took her child to a rehabilitation training center in Fuzhou. The tuition fee was more than 1,000 yuan a month, and the rent was several hundred yuan. Zhang Jiangying had to accompany her child to study while working part-time. But the income from work was very low, and the child dropped out of school after a few months. "I cried while working, worrying about what the child would do in the future." Fortunately, Zhang Jiangying met many kind people in Fuzhou, and the child was sent to Kaizhi School for 9 years. Zhang Jiangying accompanied the child to do various rehabilitation training, and her husband also drove a taxi in the city. The family still lived a tight life, but the child changed a lot after the training.

The child is sensible and clean and also learns diamond painting

"He is very sensible. He won't buy random things in the supermarket. He will take the things he likes and won't get angry if he doesn't buy them." "He can take the bus alone now. Even if he gets separated from me, he will stand there and wait." "He is very hygienic. He makes his bed clean and takes a bath every day." What makes his mother most proud is that the child has made more and more progress since he learned diamond painting last summer. Diamond painting is to inlay artificial crystals on the symbols on the canvas to complete a painting. At the beginning, the child couldn't distinguish the various colors or shapes. Zhang Jiangying had to learn it little by little by herself, and then teach the child step by step. Unexpectedly, after just a few days, the child had a strong interest and continued to fill in the painting when he returned to the rental house. The more difficult the painting, the more he loves the challenge. In the following days, the child's comprehension became stronger and stronger. "Many children can only use round diamonds to paint, but Hanghang has become proficient in using square diamonds." Zhang Jiangying said that before the Spring Festival last year, "Love Family Charity" held an auction of handmade works. A caring person spent 520 yuan to buy one of the child's works "Family Harmony Brings Good Fortune".

Zhang Jiangying said that the child cannot take care of himself yet, but she wants to accompany him until he grows old. But the child does not know this, he went to the room to practice calligraphy. In his world, there may be wonderful things that we cannot see.

Mother's persistent love

Only the love that the mother persists in can make the child feel truly safe, and a sense of security is an important cornerstone for the child to start his life. After being separated from the mother's body, every child faces this completely unfamiliar environment. His heart is terrified and helpless. The only person he can trust and rely on is his relatives around him, especially his mother. The information the child gets from his mother is his cognition of the world. In other words, if his mother loves him, unconditionally "scientifically" loves him, and accepts him unconditionally, then he will think that the world is safe and fully accepts him, otherwise, it will not be the case. For example, when a child first becomes aware of the world, he or she will throw things. He or she will throw things out again and again. People around him or her will pick them up for him or her, and he or she will throw them out again. This will continue over and over again, and he or she will never get tired of it. At first, the adults around him or her will patiently pick up the things for him or her, but eventually they will scold him or even threaten him or her because they cannot stand the trouble anymore. If you throw things again, I will beat you and let the bad guys take you away. At this point, the child will get a message: Mom doesn’t like this behavior of mine. Mom doesn’t like me when I do this. Mom likes me when I am well-behaved, but not when I am making trouble. In other words, when I am well-behaved, Mom likes me, but when I am not, Mom doesn’t like me. The first time, this is just a vague impression.