What are the latest conditions for women to have a second child?

In 2015, the two-child policy was fully relaxed. More and more families are eager to have a second child. So what are the latest conditions for women to have a second child? The editor has specially sorted it out as follows. Parents must choose whether to have a second child according to their own situation, and never make the child suffer.

The latest conditions for women to have a second child

The communiqué of the Fifth Plenary Session of the 18th Central Committee of the Communist Party of China on October 29, 2015 proposed: Promote balanced population development, adhere to the basic national policy of family planning, improve the population development strategy, fully implement the policy that a couple can have two children, and actively take actions to cope with population aging.

The communiqué of this plenary session allows a couple to have two children, that is, it allows "two children" but not "two births". For example, a couple who have already given birth to twins cannot have another child.

Fully liberalizing the "two-child policy" will not cause a sharp increase in the birth rate or a sharp rebound in the population. This is because social transformation has a greater restrictive effect on fertility. From an agricultural society to an industrial society, a decline in fertility is an inevitable trend.

With the advancement of industrialization, urbanization and modernization, people's living environment, lifestyle and fertility concepts have undergone major changes. The costs of living, employment, education and medical care have greatly increased, resulting in a significant decrease in people's willingness to have children.

Due to the substantial increase in the cost of raising children and changes in fertility concepts, people's willingness to have children has greatly decreased. In the future, we must formulate policies and measures to support and encourage second children, and immediately abolish the collection of social maintenance fees.

We must strengthen the dissemination of fertility-related knowledge to women of childbearing age and improve the level of medical services for older pregnant women, increase investment in maternal and child medical personnel and equipment, and increase investment in urban and rural kindergartens.

Help you enjoy the conditions of having a second child

1. Family matters are decided by the couple after consultation

After all, having a baby is a big deal, and both parties have to agree, or at least agree after communication that "we want to have another baby", so that they can be more patient in dealing with many trivial matters in the future and will not regret having two children in the future.

2. Mom is in good health and has a good attitude

Men really don't have much say in the matter of pregnancy. All the various changes in the body and possible reactions during pregnancy are all on the mother, so it is up to the mother herself to not be afraid of pregnancy and childbirth.

3. Dad is willing to take part in taking care of the baby

Whether the father is willing to participate, and how much he can participate, will be experienced by those who have their first child. If the father is really unwilling to participate, the mother has to take care of the older child and carry and serve the younger child alone. Even if she is Elastigirl, it will be very, very tiring.

4. Take good care of the mother during pregnancy

This kind of care is not only about food and drink, but more importantly, it is psychological. If the father does not care about the pregnancy, the mother will inevitably feel that she has been abandoned by the whole world and is fighting alone.

5. Don’t be too nervous when your child is sick

It is inevitable for children to get sick when they are young. If the whole family is particularly nervous about the occasional illness of their children, the pressure may be even greater if there is one more child. Read more books on common diseases of children. When children feel unwell, you can roughly identify whether it is serious and whether they need to go to the hospital immediately. If they need injections or medication, adults should also remain calm.

6. Don’t spend a lot of money on your child’s growth

How much is considered a large sum of money? Each family has different circumstances. If you think that my child must have the best, the best clothes, the best milk powder, the best complementary food, the best kindergarten, and the best extracurricular classes, you may have to spend a lot of money. If you add another child, the financial pressure will double. If mom and dad can accept that I will try my best to create good conditions for my child, but not necessarily the best, it will be much easier. When raising a child, it is more important to accompany him, teach him by words and deeds, and it is not difficult to make him eat healthy and nutritious food and wear comfortable and warm clothes.

7. Don’t spend all your energy on your child

If two people, or the mother alone, spend all their energy on a baby, they will naturally feel that they are tied down with a baby and can't do anything. If they can still have their own time and other life funs with the first baby, then having a second baby will not affect those time and funs, except for the breastfeeding period.

8. Stop relying on the elderly and babysitters as soon as possible and take care of your family and children independently

It is best for parents to raise their own children. If the first child can go to kindergarten at the age of three, or even younger, and no longer needs help from a nanny or the elderly, then the second child will also be easy to do.

Is it suitable for every woman to have a second child?

After the pre-pregnancy check-up, you can ask your obstetrician and gynecologist how to adjust your eating habits, how to choose and take prenatal vitamins, and all the pregnancy-related questions you are interested in. Of course, you can also ask what conditions would be unfavorable to conception. Tell your obstetrician and gynecologist (whether it is Chinese medicine or Western medicine) the following situations one by one, and the doctor will develop a health care plan for you based on your actual situation.

Reproductive history: This includes your previous pregnancies, menstrual history, contraceptive use, Pap test results, and whether you have had sexually transmitted diseases or vaginal infections.

Medical history: What serious illnesses, chronic diseases, genetic diseases you have had in the past, as well as any health problems you still have, in order to effectively control these problems before pregnancy.

Surgical history: Have you ever had surgery, a blood transfusion, or been hospitalized? If so, you can tell your doctor about these, too.

Current medical treatments: Tell your doctor about any medications you have taken in the past or are currently taking. In some cases, changing your medication habits can help prevent birth defects.

Family health history: You also need to understand what your family health history is, including your husband's physical health status.

Women in these 4 situations should not have a second child

1. Too old

I believe everyone should know that the best childbearing age for women is around 23 to 30 years old. The latest childbearing age is 35 years old. If a woman is over 35 years old, then at this time, if she wants to have a baby, it will not only cause great harm to her body, but also affect the health of the fetus in her belly. And at this time, the quality of the egg cells in a woman's body is not particularly good. Although a woman may still get pregnant at this time, it is still difficult to give birth to a healthy baby.

2. Women who have had multiple miscarriages

With the development of our society, our thinking will also change. Therefore, many people have started to live together before getting married. This has exacerbated the phenomenon of more miscarriages, which will also cause great harm to women's bodies. If women have multiple miscarriages, then this type of people is not recommended to have a second child after giving birth to the first child, because at this time, the woman's uterus has reached its limit. If a woman is forced to have a second child at this time, it is very likely to cause great harm to the fetus and the pregnant mother's body.

3. Pregnancy syndrome

If a woman already has high blood pressure or diabetes, it is not recommended to get pregnant again at this time. Because this may affect the health of the pregnant mother herself, and may also cause a series of problems for the baby, so usually at this time, the doctor will recommend that the pregnant mother terminate the pregnancy. If the pregnant mother forces to have a second child at this time, there will be great danger during delivery, so at this time, the pregnant mother must listen to the doctor's advice and get treatment first before considering whether to have a second child.

4. The working environment is particularly bad

When many pregnant mothers give birth to their first baby, the working environment around them is relatively good. When they give birth to their second baby, their working environment has changed to a certain extent, which may cause the baby in their belly to be affected to a certain extent. Especially after the pregnant mother is pregnant, if she often stays in a particularly bad environment, it will also cause fetal malformation or fetal growth retardation. Therefore, it is recommended that pregnant mothers stay away from such a bad working environment after pregnancy to give birth to a healthy baby.