What are the key points of raising children aged 0-6?

Parents are the first teachers of their children. Family education is particularly important for guiding children. During childhood, parents should instill correct concepts in their children and cultivate correct values ​​in their children.

Imagination

If a child has a rich imagination, can always think of many new things when seeing something, can infinitely extend the thinking of a problem, and has many wild ideas, then it means that the child's thinking is relatively active, has a strong ability to innovate, and is very smart. However, a child's imagination can be cultivated, and preschool is a good time to cultivate a child's imagination. Parents can buy some pixel paintings for their children, so that the child can give full play to his imagination when playing, and achieve the effect of learning while playing.

Quick response

If a child reacts quickly, it is also a sign of intelligence. Quick reaction means that the child's nerve reflexes are relatively quick and the brain is relatively flexible. If you want to train your child's reaction ability, parents can accompany their children to play some ball games, such as table tennis, badminton, football, basketball, etc., which can stimulate the brain to work continuously, and the child's reaction ability will be enhanced. Parents can choose the above sports according to their children's preferences.

memory

Some children have a good memory when they are young. They can remember clearly what their mother said to them accidentally. This is very beneficial to their growth. When children are studying, the difference in memory will gradually appear. Some children can remember new words or recite texts after a few times, but some can never remember them. Diet and sleep have a profound impact on children's memory. Let children eat more protein-rich foods and ensure adequate sleep, which can effectively improve memory.

Strong hands-on ability

The child's hands-on motivation is also very important. Generally, children with strong hands-on ability will also have a more flexible mind. Many children like to take apart toys, so mothers should not be angry. This is precisely a manifestation of their strong hands-on ability. When choosing toys for children, mothers can also buy them some building blocks, puzzles and other toys that can exercise their hands-on ability and develop their intelligence.

Although some characteristics can show whether a child's brain is flexible, the child's intelligence is not only related to genetic factors, but also depends on acquired training. Therefore, parents must grasp the golden period of their children's intellectual development and promote their children's intellectual development from all aspects.

1 Don't be too anxious. We need to know that the various behaviors of children at the moment are often the reflection of their nature at this stage. Don't expect them to perform perfectly at any stage. Parents often wonder if their children are like this because of their innate character or because of my upbringing. I think it's a bit of both. Any behavior of a child is the result of a chemical reaction between the characteristics that come with genes and the environment, including upbringing. In the face of any situation of the child, we should remain positive and insist on doing positive construction. The things that should be done to raise a child normally, such as contact with nature, good family relationships, and fun for children, including parent-child reading and physical development, have you reviewed these things that should be done? Which aspects may not have been done well recently? We will try our best to do it well.

2 Don't get too hung up on the surface, but analyze the underlying reasons. The underlying reasons can be summed up in four words: ability and energy. Find ways to help your child improve and enhance himself. You must understand that the changes we make now can help your child do well in the future. His current performance is the result of your past upbringing. Don't get too hung up on it. It's not too late to change from now on.

3. Don’t over-parent. Many families pay too much attention to their children, especially the smiles and frowns of babies, and magnify them too much, which leads to overreaction. They often pay too much attention to their children and over-assist them. The focus of family life is on their children. We need to adjust the focus of our lives and not be too child-centered. When doing housework, children may come to watch. It is normal for parents to learn and imitate when they have something to do. Try to take your children to accompany you to do something, let them learn to wait, and know that this matter is the mother's business, and I am helping the mother, instead of everything being that the child wants to go wherever we must play.

4 A harmonious family atmosphere is very important, especially mothers should understand that a child’s growth does not require the mother alone. He needs a parenting team and needs to get different energy and support from different family members. Everyone has his own way of interacting with the child.

First, parents should only let their children do one thing at a time. For example, when playing with toys, parents can only take out one toy and tell the child, "Let's play with this one today, and play with the others next time." Then put the child in a quiet area, don't disturb the child, and let the child stay alone to play with a toy. When the time is up, go and see how the child is playing.

Second, parents should not interfere with their children. When a child is doing something, what he needs most is an independent private space. At this time, parents only need to accompany him quietly without intervening too much.

Reading habit cultivation cannot be ignored

Reading can exercise thinking ability and expand the depth of thinking. It is a good habit for children to benefit from for a lifetime. The cultivation of early reading habits starts with parent-child reading. In the process of parent-child reading, the baby will follow and imitate. Through this imitation method, the baby begins to gradually transition from passively listening to parents telling stories to retelling stories, and even making up stories by himself. Parents need to constantly encourage and praise the baby in this process, and patiently read the stories that the baby likes repeatedly. Before the age of 6, children have limited literacy and their eyes are not fully developed. It is difficult for them to read traditional books independently. So they like to hold their parents' hands to read and use their fingers to guide the reading. At this stage, children can learn and play by themselves, and they can still read with their parents, making reading present a rich form. From chewing cloth books to picture books to reading books, from storytelling to parent-child reading, guide children to gradually establish reading habits and reading fun, and children will repeat this process that can create fun. So parents find that 0-6 years old is really an important stage for children to develop reading.

The critical period of art enlightenment

Art has no age limit, but for children, there is indeed a best period for art enlightenment. Picasso once said: Every child is a born artist. Preschool children have a natural artistic intuition. Introducing art education at this stage can better help children grow in aesthetics. To cultivate children's artistic cells, parents only need to master some small skills and methods in their daily lives with their children, and they can become their children's best art partners. When the child is about 1 year old, parents can prepare paper, pens and paints, allowing the child to freely express the creativity in his mind. There is no need to consider or mind what the child draws. The key is whether he moves and whether his imagination is stimulated. Through painting, children turn their imagination into reality, "what you think is what you get", and rich colors will also stimulate children's visual senses, which is a great reward and interest point for children. They will have a virtuous cycle, constantly improve their abilities in this area, and can exercise their abilities in all aspects. Parents can also often read picture books to their children, take them to exhibitions, listen to concerts... Beautiful pictures and beautiful melodies can enrich his imagination of the unknown world, open up his sensory experience, and enhance his sense of beauty.

The golden age of second language acquisition

Many parents say that they are jealous of other children's fluent English and standard pronunciation. They are also Chinese children, so why are they so good? Their own children can't do anything, and parents are too anxious. In fact, 2-4 years old is the golden period for Chinese children to learn English. It will not affect the development of their mother tongue, nor will it miss the golden period for learning a second language.