How to deal with children's rebellious period

It is normal for children to have a rebellious period. Many children will have a rebellious period when they reach a certain age. So here we need to understand the manifestations of children's rebellious period. How should parents deal with children's rebellious period?

They are highly destructive, stubborn, have intense emotional reactions, have unstable tempers, and have poor emotional control. For example, they are easily excited, refuse to do what their parents ask them to do, and want to do things that are forbidden. They ignore their parents and would rather play by themselves than with their parents. They have a strong rebellious mentality, always feel that the teacher is unfair to them or that their parents always restrict them, so they will try to confront authority, such as quarreling with their parents and going against their teachers. They deliberately break the rules that were set before; they constantly make new demands, negotiate with their parents, and are willing to do things only when the requirements are met. They may have a particularly strong vanity problem, such as loving to buy branded goods or liking to dress themselves up. When playing with other children, they fight for the same toy, fight for the order of priority, are unwilling to share toys with others, but love to grab other people's toys, and even beat people in serious cases.

First of all, parents should talk to their children on an equal footing. In the face of the baby's unreasonable behavior, if you forcibly use the authority of parents to confront the child, it will only backfire. It is better to squat down and have an equal dialogue with the child to understand the child's true inner demands. If the baby has a problem that cannot be solved, parents can also help to make suggestions. Secondly, do not beat or scold the child. Children in the rebellious period have a rebellious mentality. The more you sing against her and beat and scold her, the more she will resist. Therefore, parents must calm down and do not beat or scold their children, otherwise it will make the child timid and inferior. Thirdly, encourage and recognize the child appropriately. Children are eager to be recognized by adults. Even if they are doing something you think is wrong. You might as well do the opposite, first recognize his ideas and practices, and then wait until his mood calms down, and then express your opinions and say what you think is the right approach. That is, "delaying tactics", giving the child a certain amount of time to calm down, and then recognizing and encouraging him, may receive different results.

The main manifestations of children in the rebellious period are as follows: 1. The temper is particularly unstable and the emotional control is relatively poor, such as being easily excited, yelling at parents because of small things, and losing temper, sometimes always feel that parents are particularly nagging and even can not listen to parents' opinions and suggestions. 2. There is a strong rebellious mentality, always feel that the teacher is unfair to them or parents always restrict them, so they will try to confront authority, such as quarreling with parents, going against teachers, etc. 3. There may be a problem of being particularly vain, such as loving to buy branded things or liking to dress up, and some women even dress themselves up to be particularly mature and sexy. If the above problems and manifestations have appeared, it is very likely that they have entered puberty and are currently in the rebellious period.

Children's rebellious period is divided into two periods, early childhood and adolescence. In early childhood, after the age of two, babies' language ability develops rapidly and they gradually develop self-awareness. When their desire to act independently is restricted by adults, and their verbal expression and control abilities are weak at this time, they fight against restrictions by throwing tantrums, which is called the first rebellious period. Although adolescents are not financially independent, they psychologically hope that others will agree with their ideas and try to act according to their own wishes. They do not want their parents to interfere too much. However, due to their lack of social and life experience, they are not careful about the consequences and are obviously childish and blind. They are prone to conflicts in concepts and behaviors at home and school, which is also called the second rebellious period.