How to deal with the relationship between the two children and avoid partiality

The country has fully opened up the second child policy, and the education of two children has become extremely important. Parents should learn and understand it in advance. So how to educate two children after having a second child? How to comfort the first child after having a second child? What are the benefits of having a second child for the child's growth? What should I do if the two children quarrel after having a second child? How can parents avoid favoritism after having a second child? The following editor will give you a detailed introduction.

How to educate two children after having a second child

Treat all children fairly and do not show partiality to any one child. Doing so will seriously hurt the feelings of other children and may even cause psychological trauma in serious cases.

In the process of educating children, parents should pay attention to the development of children's behavior and morality, cultivate children's humble and sharing character, and train children's communication skills;

Do not compare them in front of your children, as this will hurt the relationship between the two children and easily lead to competition and jealousy between them.

Coordinate and balance the relationship between the two children to avoid the situation where the eldest child commands the younger child.

How to comfort the first child when having a second child

Guide Dabao to accept his younger siblings through storytelling;

Naming the younger siblings together with the older child will make the older child feel that he or she participated in the birth of the younger siblings;

You can take your older child to see the newborn baby more often, so that he or she can like the newborn baby;

Have a serious talk with the eldest child, and tell him that mommy and daddy’s love for him/her will not diminish because of the birth of a younger brother or sister, and that the child will gain the sibling love of his/her younger brother or sister.

The benefits of having a second child on the child's growth

Make children's childhood less lonely: Many only children grow up lonely. When their parents go to work, many children often stay at home alone. Having a second child means that the child will have a friend in his childhood. The two children can accompany each other and play with each other, so they will no longer feel lonely.

Children born with two children are better at dealing with others and sharing: Nowadays, the education of only children has attracted much attention. Many only children are self-centered and do not know how to interact with others. If a second child is born, the child's self-centeredness will be reduced, and he or she will know better how to get along with others, share and love, and will not be so selfish.

Can promote family harmony: With one more child, the family will be more lively and warmer than before. With the company of two children, parents will also be more harmonious.

Reduce the pressure on children to support their parents: The pressure on two children to support their parents will be much less; and when encountering family problems, brothers and sisters will have each other to rely on.

What to do if the two children quarrel after having a second child

After children quarrel, we should first find out the reason for the quarrel;

Next, talk to the two children separately to find out the root cause of the quarrel and ask them whether they have any opinions about each other, aiming to solve the problem fundamentally.

Summarize the reasons given by the child to see if your education is not adequate. If so, you must strengthen education;

Instill in the two children that they are both part of the family, are both their parents' treasures, should love each other, share good things with family members, and play fun things with their brothers and sisters. This is what good children do.

How can parents avoid favoritism when having a second child?

Treat both children fairly: Parents often unconsciously favor the well-behaved and good-performing child, and ignore the naughty and poor-performing child. If you want to avoid favoritism, parents must treat both children fairly and should not favor one over the other for other reasons.

Parents should not make personal attacks on their children: Parents should accept their children completely, including their strengths and weaknesses. If a child does not perform well in a certain aspect, parents should not compare the child with other children, let alone make personal attacks or harm the child, otherwise the child's sensitive heart will be able to sense the parent's bias.